A person facing hardship is never only a need to be met. They have a name, a family, abilities, hopes, and a life that extends far beyond the difficulty in front of them. The way we offer help should recognize all of that.
A responsibility to notice
In Devarim 15:7–8, the Torah calls us to respond to a fellow person’s poverty with an open heart and an open hand. The starting point is attention: recognizing that another person’s difficulty concerns us.
That is an important foundation for tzedakah. It encourages us to move beyond a passing feeling and consider what a useful response might be. For a Jewish community, caring for its members is part of the responsibility of belonging to one another.
Dignity is part of the help
Rambam emphasizes the manner of giving, including a kind expression and words of encouragement, in Hilchot Matanot Aniyim 10:4–5. How someone is treated matters alongside what they receive.
In practical terms, that means listening without turning a difficult situation into an interrogation. It means avoiding assumptions about how a person arrived there. It means offering a private conversation instead of making someone’s circumstances a public story.
Even well-intentioned help can miss its purpose if the person feels diminished by it. A respectful response leaves room for their preferences, their knowledge of their own situation, and their ability to choose.
Helping someone find firmer ground
In Hilchot Matanot Aniyim 10:7, Rambam places special importance on support that strengthens a person’s independence, including work and partnership. Immediate relief and a more stable future both deserve our attention.
A practical connection can sometimes open that next step. A person with a useful skill may need an introduction. Someone searching for work may benefit from a relevant contact. A family may need help identifying an appropriate community resource. These are examples of how a connection can matter, rather than a promise that one introduction will solve every difficulty.
The useful question is specific: what would help this person move forward? Answering it takes patience, care, and a willingness to understand the circumstances before choosing the response.
The foundation’s focus
The Shem-Tov Foundation’s purpose includes connecting sources of help to Jewish people who need that help. We want useful resources, knowledge, and opportunities to reach people through thoughtful human connections.
This website does not seek donations. It offers a way to understand that purpose, explore Jewish values, and reflect on the connections that help people move forward. Our approach starts with the person and the need, and with respect for the dignity of both the person receiving help and the person offering it.
Sources for further learning
- Devarim 15:7–8, responding to a person in need.
- Rambam, Hilchot Matanot Aniyim 10:4–7, the manner of giving and strengthening independence.
This reflection applies these themes to everyday life. It does not set out the detailed halachot of tzedakah.







